CONSIDER THE LILIES OF THE FIELD

The human mind often dwells on future possibilities—new experiences, personal transformations, or shifts in life circumstances. Buddhist teachings suggest that this focus on desires and expectations leads to suffering, as those desires may remain unfulfilled or, if realized, may prove disappointing.

Imagine, for a moment, a state of being where we set aside these future-oriented thoughts. We exist as consciousness, a blank slate, devoid of the usual mental chatter. This approximates samadhi, a state of deep meditative peace.

A question arises: Can we function in daily life from this state? Would such a state equate to a passive, unresponsive existence, akin to a lobotomy?

Spiritual traditions assert that it is possible to live and act from this state of surrendered ego, continuously guided by a higher intelligence. In this state all actions are aligned with this guiding force, full of love and light, leading to a state of “ever-new bliss,” a term used by Paramahansa Yogananda.

This is the state that Jesus described in Matthew NRSVUE 6:25-34:

“Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink, or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more than food and the body more than clothing? Look at the birds of the air: they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they? And which of you by worrying can add a single hour to your span of life? And why do you worry about clothing? Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow; they neither toil nor spin, yet I tell you, even Solomon in all his glory was not clothed like one of these. But if God so clothes the grass of the field, which is alive today and tomorrow is thrown into the oven, will he not much more clothe you—you of little faith? Therefore do not worry, saying, ‘What will we eat?’ or ‘What will we drink?’ or ‘What will we wear?’ For it is the gentiles who seek all these things, and indeed your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.

Happiness, Non-Attachment

I HOPE YOU DANCE

All of us, if we have lived long enough, have those moments when we feel overwhelmed by a wave of suffering. It can show in many different ways, and does for most of us.

Perhaps it is a relationship break-up, losing our source of support, an unexpected health challenge, a death in the family or losing our home. Perhaps we are simply a witness to the suffering of a close loved one, and powerless to do anything about it.

When this happens it can throw us for a loop, sometimes causing us to veer off our path. But when we face such a challenge can we stand tall and fearless?

It takes a special person to do that–someone with a true sense of their own inner power and resolve.

At times of great challenge music has been one of my sources of inspiration. “I Hope You Dance,” a song popularized by Lee Ann Womack, is full of wonderful messages, reminding us that life is worthwhile, that we should never lose our sense of wonder, that we should “never settle for the path of least resistance.”

After all, life was never meant to be a painless experience. Make your life special and meaningful, despite what happens to you, and in your determined resolve you will find the gold nugget of your soul’s joy.

[Below you will find the complete lyrics of this wonderful song:

I hope you never lose your sense of wonderYou get your fill to eat but always keep that hungerMay you never take one single breath for grantedGod forbid love ever leave you empty-handed
I hope you still feel small when you stand beside the oceanWhenever one door closes, I hope one more opensPromise me that you’ll give faith a fighting chanceAnd when you get the choice to sit it out or dance
I hope you dance (dance)I hope you dance (dance)
I hope you never fear those mountains in the distanceNever settle for the path of least resistanceLivin’ might mean takin’ chances, but they’re worth takin’Lovin’ might be a mistake, but it’s worth makin’
Don’t let some hell bent heart leave you bitterWhen you come close to sellin’ out, reconsiderGive the heavens above more than just a passing glanceAnd when you get the choice to sit it out or dance
I hope you dance (time is a wheel in constant motion)I hope you dance (always rolling us along)I hope you dance (tell me who wants to look back on their years)I hope you dance (and wonder where those years have gone)
I hope you still feel small when you stand beside the oceanWhenever one door closes, I hope one more opensPromise me that you’ll give faith a fighting chanceAnd when you get the choice to sit it out or dance
Dance, I hope you dance (dance)I hope you dance (time is a wheel in constant motion)I hope you dance (always rolling us along)I hope you dance (tell me who wants to look back on their years)I hope you dance (and wonder where those years have gone)
Tell me who wants to look back on their years (dance)And wonder where those years have gone (dance)”
[I Hope You Dance lyrics © Universal Music Corp., Sony/atv Melody, Choice Is Tragic Music, Soda Creek Songs, Round Hill Verses Publishing]
Happiness, Meaningful Purpose

FIGHTING FORGETFULNESS

In the Ashtavakra Gita sage Ashtavakra opens with the following advice: “If you are seeking liberation, my son, avoid the objects of the senses like poison and cultivate tolerance, sincerity, compassion, contentment, and truthfulness as the antidote.”
(Translation by John Henry Richards)

Why do objects of the senses need to be avoided like poison? Certainly Ashtavakra is not speaking of ordinary perception, especially the delights that nature provides.

What he is speaking of is the orientation of seeking our happiness from sensual pleasures. When we do that, we lose our focus and forget that the real treasure of spiritual joy that comes from within.

In addition, there is the unpleasant side effect of sensual pleasure. When the object of our perception brings us pleasure, we want to repeat the experience, and so it has a binding quality. If we cannot repeat the experience, there is disappointment and suffering.

Further, there is the fact that the pleasure that we derive from objects and experiences diminishes over time and we return to our baseline of happiness. This inability to repeat the initial degree of happiness is a phenomenon that psychologists call the “hedonic treadmill.”

While this world has many sensual pleasures to offer, we should be ever vigilant and remember who we truly are and what purposes we have established for ourselves in our life. In so doing we will be able to avoid getting stuck in a small eddy while the river of life flows endlessly onward to the ocean.

Happiness, Non-Attachment

THE TWO BIRDS

The Mandukya Upanishad contains a verse (3.1.1) about two birds, ever united and close companions, perched on the same tree. One is busy eating the fruit of the tree, some sweet and some bitter, while the other one simply looks on.

The bird that is eating the fruit eventually turns around to see his companion, supremely happy, and in that seeing he realizes that he could have that unwavering happiness as well.

This simple story can remind us of the story of Adam and Eve in Genesis. They eat of the forbidden fruit and are then banished from the Garden of Eden.

In ordinary human experience we pursue the pleasures that worldly life has to offer, thinking that in so doing we will finally achieve the happiness that we so crave. However, we fail to realize the transitory nature of life, and that accordingly the pleasures that we seek will vanish in time. We also overlook the fact that the pleasures of life come with the price tag of inevitable suffering, just as the first bird finds that some of the fruit is bitter.

The second bird that looks on can be thought of either as God, the Divine Source, or as one’s divine essential Self. Either way, the first bird can and does find its way to the true happiness that it yearns for–a happiness that is unchanging and eternal.

Happiness, Impermanence

THE ADDICTION THAT WILL SET YOU FREE

When we find something that gives us pleasure, we figure that double the dose will mean double the pleasure, but the law of diminishing returns sets in.

This is well understood by drug addicts who repeatedly but unsuccessfully attempt to replicate the pleasure that they experienced with the first use of their drug. Though not so dramatically,the same principle applies to the simple pleasures of life.

However, this principle of diminishing returns does not apply to spiritual joys experienced by those who practice meditation or other spiritual disciplines. In fact, the opposite is the case: the joy grows and in time becomes ever present. Moreover, the practice of spiritual disciples produces rewards that we can take with us when we die, unlike the pleasures of worldly life, and eventually sets us free!

So who would not want to succumb to this addiction?

Happiness, Spiritual Practice
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